In the world of parenting, a new concept is stirring debate: seeking permission from babies before changing their nappies. This idea, introduced by sexuality educator Deanne Carson, suggests parents should initiate a dialogue of consent from infancy. Carson argues that even infants can benefit from a culture of consent, emphasizing non-verbal cues and eye contact to convey that a child’s input matters. She believes this can lay the foundation for a respectful parent-child relationship.
However, many skeptics question the practicality of seeking consent from a baby who can’t comprehend the situation, jesting about the absurdity of expecting a verbal response from a newborn.
Adding to the debate, parenting guru John Rosemond argues against high-fiving children, claiming it undermines parental authority and respect, potentially leading to a lack of discipline.
These discussions highlight the complexities of raising children. Are we overthinking parenting, or are these conversations essential for nurturing respectful relationships? As the debate continues, it is clear that parenting is a journey filled with challenges, surprises, and dirty diapers, but the quest for understanding and improvement never ends.